Why a Public Pillow Fight for Domestic Violence Awareness? Because Fighting Doesn't Belong in the Bedroom! Pillows will be flying and people will be talking about healthy ways to end domestic and dating abuse. There'll be music, break dancing, resources, a Pillow Talk. The event benefits the YWCA, Detroit's only domestic violence shelter. They will also be collecting used cell phones for Verizon HopeLine, providing safe, refurbished prepaid phones for victims fleeing abuse.