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A straight guy gets blowjobs from his gay best friend — and is starting to feel guilty about it

My husband secretly got vaccinated for monkeypox — is he cheating on me?

Can someone be both homosexual and asexual?

Savage Love: A reader has ‘mind-blowing’ orgasms that leave him disoriented

Why would a survivor of sexual trauma want to engage in BDSM?

Savage Love: I’m tired of being treated like a gay Black fantasy come to life

Savage Love: My wife wants an open marriage in theory, but seems to be against it in practice

Kids who watch porn, naked husbands, listening to NPR during sex, and more quickies

My BF sent his male friend nudes and says this is ‘something straight guys do’

A small-town teacher wonders how she can find sex online without parents or former students finding out

If he acts like a boyfriend, why doesn’t he want to be a boyfriend?

My wife won’t let me watch porn of any kind

Why do I always end up alone, and other quickies

I like being choked during sex — is that dangerous?

I fantasize about my husband being intimate with other women — what do you call me?

How do I tell a guy the sex was too rough?

Gays and confused

Is it transphobic to have a preference for or against penises?

I’m gay — should I be worried about monkeypox?