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You must respect the Ass Ceiling

By Dan Savage

Sep 21, 2022

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My BF sent his male friend nudes and says this is ‘something straight guys do’

Police states

By Dan Savage
Sep 14, 2022
A small-town teacher wonders how she can find sex online without parents or former students finding out

Schooled me once

By Dan Savage
Sep 7, 2022
If he acts like a boyfriend, why doesn’t he want to be a boyfriend?

Playing

By Dan Savage
Aug 30, 2022
My wife won’t let me watch porn of any kind

Jerked around

By Dan Savage
Aug 24, 2022
Why do I always end up alone, and other quickies

By Dan Savage
Aug 17, 2022
I like being choked during sex — is that dangerous?

Choke hold

By Dan Savage
Aug 10, 2022
I fantasize about my husband being intimate with other women — what do you call me?

That husband over there

By Dan Savage
Aug 3, 2022
How do I tell a guy the sex was too rough?

Pound for pound

By Dan Savage
Jul 27, 2022
Gays and confused

Beyond monkeypox

By Dan Savage
Jul 20, 2022
Is it transphobic to have a preference for or against penises?

Dick or bust

By Dan Savage
Jul 13, 2022
I’m gay — should I be worried about monkeypox?

There are more than 5,000 cases all over the world, and almost all of them are among gay and bi men

By Dan Savage
Jul 6, 2022
How does the ‘bonding hormone’ create emotional attachment to a sex partner?

Licensed and bonded

By Dan Savage
Jun 29, 2022
Is it ‘sexual preferences’ or just plain racism?

Pride and preference

By Dan Savage
Jun 22, 2022
My Dom did not respect my limits during a BDSM session

The experience left me feeling terrible — should I tell him?

By Dan Savage
Jun 15, 2022
Why do I keep dating shitty people?

What should I be asking myself as I begin to form new attachments, especially after showing such bad judgment in the recent past?

By Dan Savage
Jun 8, 2022
I don’t like feeling like I have a sugar daddy!

Expensed with

By Dan Savage
Jun 1, 2022
My laptop is dead, my phone is broken, and my thumbs are bloodied — but I got this week’s column done

Quickies

By Dan Savage
May 25, 2022
Are some people incapable of being physical when love is involved?

Freyed nerves

By Dan Savage
May 18, 2022
Now for some real worries

Swingers apps? Butt plugs? We are weeks away from American women being stripped of a fundamental constitutional and human right

By Dan Savage
May 11, 2022
Can one-sided open relationships work?

Open and shut

By Dan Savage
May 4, 2022

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